The free soul is rare, but you know it when you see it - basically because you feel good, very good, when you are near or with them.
What does virginity mean to a queer person, who may never have vaginal intercourse in her/his/hir life? What of a lesbian who chooses to never engage in any sort of penetrative sex act her entire life, does she remain some sort of super, extra virgin? If a straight man receives a blowjob, he will in all likelihood still consider himself a virgin, but a gay man receiving a blowjob may have a more complicated understanding of what it means for his sex life. In many ways, our conception of “virginity” erases or invalidates queer sex.
That moment when you rewatch a movie you haven’t seen in years, and suddenly it all makes sense because you originally watched it when you were too young.
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